Healing in Laughter: When Play Becomes the Secret Language of Parent-Child Relationships
Central China Normal University
Abstract
Abstract: Playful Parenting by Dr. Lawrence J. Cohen reveals the transformative power of play in parent-child relationships. Challenging traditional, instruction-focused parenting methods, the book emphasizes that laughter and playful interaction are essential tools for emotional bonding, communication, and conflict resolution. Cohen illustrates how children naturally use play to process emotions, reduce anxiety, and build confidence, while adults often overlook its significance. Through practical examples and a rich “play toolbox,” he demonstrates how even difficult moments—like tantrums or fears—can be turned into opportunities for connection through humor and imagination. The book encourages parents to adopt a “play mindset,” shifting from control and correction to cooperation and emotional safety. Ultimately, Playful Parenting invites parents to rediscover the joy in parenting, showing that meaningful relationships are built not through perfection, but through shared laughter and genuine connection. This approach reframes parenting as a mutual journey of growth, healing, and playful love.
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Playful Parenting,; Parent-child relationship; Emotional bonding; Play therapy; Child developmentCopyright Notice & License:
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